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Resilience on a Plate: Cabbage, Taters, and Ham

Resilience on a Plate: Cabbage, Taters, and Ham

Resilience on a Plate: Cabbage, Taters, and Ham

This story by Elizabeth deserves a super thanks for her lovely stories.

Once upon a time, in the heart of the Great Depression, my maternal grandfather stood at the crossroads of life. Generations of farming traditions, once the bedrock of his family's existence, now crumbled under the weight of economic turmoil. With heavy heart and furrowed brow, he made a life-altering decision: he would leave behind the fields and plow his future on the iron tracks of the railroad. Hope for better prospects beckoned, but it came at the cost of dwindling paychecks as the nation's hardships deepened.

One fateful evening, my grandfather returned home after an arduous day's toil, his coat still draped across his weary shoulders. He sank into a chair without uttering a word, his eyes lost in the worn floorboards. The air was thick with apprehension as his family, sensing something amiss, gathered around him. Silent tears traced paths down his weathered cheeks, a sight hitherto unseen that sent shivers through their souls. Amidst this unspoken sorrow, my grandmother, the beacon of practicality, took charge. She broke the silence with an unwavering voice, demanding to know the source of his anguish. With a sigh that seemed to carry the weight of the world, my grandfather wiped his tears and unveiled the heartbreaking truth—they had lost the family farm, their haven for generations. The mortgage payments had grown insurmountable with diminishing wages, leaving them a mere fortnight to bid farewell.

But, in a twist of fate, my grandmother's reaction defied the despair that loomed. She burst into laughter, startling the entire family. Amid her infectious mirth, she reassured them that this was not the end; it was merely a bend in the road. She stressed the significance of unity and boundless love, declaring with unyielding conviction, "We'll make it." She knew their bond was unbreakable. With her signature practicality, she urged my grandfather to wash up, reminding him that dinner was ready, and his favorite dish awaited.

Around that humble supper table, my grandmother wove a plan to transform their new abode—an abandoned sharecropper's house—into a true home. The following day, armed with a horse-drawn wagon, a trusty cast-iron wash pot, provisions, and an unwavering determination, they embarked on a mission to turn adversity into opportunity. The act of cleansing and preparing their new space symbolized their resilience and unwavering spirit to embrace the challenges that lay ahead.

Recipe: Cabbage, Taters, and Ham


  • 1 head of cabbage, chopped
  • 5 potatoes, peeled and diced
  • 2 cups of cooked ham, diced
  • 1/2 onion, chopped
  • 2 cups of water
  • Salt and pepper, to taste


  1. In a large skillet, combine the chopped cabbage, diced potatoes, cooked ham, chopped onion, water, salt, and pepper.
  2. Cover the skillet and cook over medium heat for approximately 20 minutes, or until the potatoes are tender and the flavors meld together.


  1. Prepare a pan of comforting cornbread, and slice it for each serving.
  2. Split the cornbread slices and generously ladle the hearty mixture of cabbage, taters, and ham over the top.

The story of my grandparents' resilience during the Great Depression reminds us that even in the bleakest of times, love, unity, and practicality can guide us through the darkest of tunnels. Their ability to find joy amidst hardship and transform their new circumstances into a place of comfort and warmth is a testament to the enduring strength of the human spirit. Just as they found solace in their favorite dish, "Cabbage, Taters, and Ham," we too can draw inspiration from their story and savor the flavors that not only filled their bellies but also warmed their hearts.

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